10.31.2012

Halloween 2012

We went to two pumpkin patches this year (same as last year). Ready for a TON of pictures!?!

Just the three of us went to the Buffalo Pumpkin Patch earlier this month.

We didn't even get a pumpkin...we spent all our time with the animals! She loved it!

Holding a chicken!!!

Her first pony ride!!!

She LOVED it!


Last Saturday we headed to the same family-owned pumpkin patch in Muscatine, Red Barn Pumpkin Farm, that we went to last year.

It was pretty cold...so we didn't hang out too long. She loved the corn bins.

They had a dog...and that was her favorite part. She loved throwing the ball and playing fetch with their dog. We mostly went here because I wanted to get her picture taken at this sign like I did last year.

What a difference a year makes!

2011 (about 30 inches)

2012 (about 36 inches, 38 inches with her Minnie ears)

Carving pumpkins with Grandma. She wasn't too into it.

She liked stirring the pumpkin goop...but wouldn't touch it with her hands. She kept saying, "Yuck," and "Stinky."

Admiring her pumpkin with Daddy. She requested a sad face.

Tuesday we headed to Toddler Time at Chick-Fil-A and the little M painted a pumpkin. She loved doing this!

We went to Blue Grass Tuesday evening and met up with Tracy at Louie and Bev's house for trick-or-treating.

On the move! Ready for her CANDY!

With Grandpa Lou Lou (as she calls him).

Spoiled girl - TWO suckers at once! Talk about a sugar high!

Madison LOVED all the candy! I hadn't talked to her much about trick-or-treating because of how much she loves candy. But once she heard we were going to get candy she wouldn't eat dinner and only wanted to go outside. (She ate dinner once we were home.)

Josh and I only ate a couple pieces of her candy last night. Haha! :)

10.29.2012

"She Looks Just Like Her Mama."

Only after 28 years of life did I meet MY first biological family member. Our precious daughter, Madison. 
So when family, friends, and even strangers tell me she looks just like me, it makes my heart skip. Every time. And it probably always will.

Physical resemblances are something I never even thought twice about. No wait...I have thought about it. If I honestly reflect back on my life...I know I've thought about it. Heck. I still think about it! It's something that is almost magical to me. Is that crazy?! (I know it's not magic but simple genetics.) I love looking at someone's face and seeing how they resemble their parents or seeing a group of siblings that share family resemblances. I am even so thankful for my two Aunts...as certain facial expressions and angles of their faces remind me of my mother.

So now, I find myself looking at my Madison. A lot. I know we have the same eyes and the same nose. She has her Daddy's mouth and hair. She also has the most perfect combination of both of our not so pretty feet.

Perhaps I just didn't want to acknowledge I was really thinking about something that I felt, and maybe still feel, is something I shouldn't be thinking about. Being adopted...that whole being born in another country and flying to the United States at the tender age of 3 months. I would never want my Dad or family to feel as if I don't feel 100% part of our family. Because I do. I love my parents and family unconditionally. Heck. I forget I'm even adopted half the time!!! It almost always takes other people's questions to remind me that I am Korean...or that my brother and I are not biologically related. So for me, it's kinda a double-edged sword. Do I celebrate and relish in the fact that I finally have an obvious mini-me? Or am I placing too high of an importance on the fact that Madison is my biological daughter? Maybe these aren't even related and I just need to stop over-thinking this aspect of my life.



What I do know is that I can't help but feel the same ever-lasting unconditional love for Madison as I also feel for and from MY parents. My parents and I may not be bonded by blood...but we still share a special and ever-lasting parent/child relationship. 

I don't think I can really compare Madison and me with my Dad and me. It's like comparing apples and oranges. Each relationship is it's own. I've decided to just be appreciate of the fact that I've been given family through both circumstances. That I've had the privilege to learn the power of love and the strength of family through adoption and through biological birth.

10.26.2012

Foto Friday - Besties

Just a few shots of M and her bestie, Sarah Grace.
M now calls her "Dace." (She has a hard time with the 'g' sound.)




Cuties!

One of these days I'm gonna have to bring our good camera and get some actual shots of the girls together!

10.22.2012

UNI Homecoming 2012

Last Saturday was UNI Homecoming. The last Homecoming we attended was back in 2009. So we decided this was the year to head back and to let M enjoy her first UNI Homecoming!

We left home around 9am. M had a new movie (The Princess and the Frog) to keep her content.

We arrived right around 11am, headed to HyVee to grab a few groceries, and were off to tailgate with friends!







After lunch, we headed to Redeker Center. Josh and our good friend Troy had to show Madison their names on the Gold Star Award wall. (Sorry for the blurry photo.)


Then, it was back to tailgate and have more fun! Troy and Kiley (and all our friends) were so great with M! We are SO thankful to have such great friends that love our little M.

Playing their own version of bags together.


Peek-a-boo!

 I think they were singing?!

WHOA! :) Kiley letting M fly!!! (And yes, I silently hyperventilated. Haha!)


There was a brief (and super exciting) meet-up/convo with our friends, Tara and her boyfriend, Mike. (No picture! Sorry!) Then, After tailgating, we headed to our friends' house to hang out for a while. We didn't attend the game, although I'm happy to report UNI won! Then, we were off to The OP (The Other Place) for pizza. The OP is one of Josh's favorite restaurants in Cedar Falls!


After dinner M and I headed to the hotel to go to sleep. We were both exhausted (especially M since she never got a nap in).

And a final picture. Josh and M. Playing with the curtain and saying good-bye to our hotel room.


We had SO much fun! M was GREAT the whole day! We are SO SO THANKFUL for the awesome friendships we've kept all these years and all the wonderful memories of UNI that we share! Go CATS!

10.20.2012

Tunnel Slide VIDEO!

This past week M has decided she is no longer scared of tunnels at the parks. She used to only go in one quarter circle tunnel at the park at Veteran's Memorial Park in Bettendorf. However...she's expanding her horizons and getting brave about trying all the tunnels there.

She even willingly went down the small tunnel slide!

Over and over and over...so I decided to catch her on video.



My favorite part is when she repeats after me, "tunnel slide." And, her 'skipping' is pretty sweet too!

10.19.2012

Foto Friday - Fun at the Park

I posted these on FB...but had to include them on the blog, too!

These were from Tuesday...at Rocket Park in Bettendorf.


She LOVED going down this swirly slide.



She had such a blast! It was so fun watching her play!

10.18.2012

I Lied To M About...

dum-dums. And I falsely accused poor Winky.

K. Here's the story.

M is OBSESSED with suckers. Obsessed. They are my current go-to for bribing, I mean...rewarding good behavior. I bought  bag a while ago and of course hid them in a cupboard.

On Tuesday I goofed and let M see where her precious suckers came from. DOH!! She literally screamed from excitement when she saw the bag...

Original home for dum-dums:

On Wednesday she asked for one and pointed to the cupboard (at 8:30 in the morning), and I told her no. She proceeded to scream and point to the cupboard for about 3 minutes. Then, she gave up, and ran to her room to pout. I quickly relocated the dum-dums.

New home for dum-dums. Don't worry...I squished the bag down after this picture. (And, I also re-discovered two sippy cups that I had forgot about.)

Then, I went to her room and told her that I wanted to show her something in the cupboard. She willingly came with me because she thought she was getting a sucker. (Am I mean Mom or what?!) I picked her up, opened the cupboard...and then sadly said, "Oh no! The suckers are gone now!! No more suckers for today." She teared up. I started feeling really bad...uh, sorta. Then, I told her, "You know...Winky was really hungry and he ate all the suckers. (She's actually used to the dogs eating/stealing her food sometimes.) It's ok though...we'll get some more another time, just not today, ok?!"

She processed what I told her. Sighed and dried her eyes. Then, I put her down, and she was off playing...satisfied with my lie.

I'm now debating if I should feel bad about this...or be proud of myself?!

10.17.2012

TWSS - Inky Come, Too???

I've decided I better start recording some of the fun conversations that M and I have (even if they are only funny to me!). So, here I am with another installment of 'That's What She Said' - TWSS!

Earlier this evening Benny had an appointment at the veterinarian. We had to leave right when M awoke from her nap. She's usually kinda crabby for a bit after her nap, so I went in knowing I had some fun news to share with her.

Me: Guess what? We have to go in the car...and BENNY is going to ride with us!
M: Wohoo! Yay! (Clapping)
Me: (Thankful she's excited)
M: Mommy, Inky come, too? Pleeeaaase?!
Me: Oh no, baby. He can't come today. Just Benny today.
M: Awwwwwwwww!!! (insert M's super sad face)
Me: It's ok. Winky will sleep in his comfy bed while we're gone. At least Benny's going with us!
M: (BIG SIGH) Alright, Mommy.

And...here she is sharing the back seat with Benny.

I love that she loves both her doggies so much! Well...she might love Winky a bit more. Haha! :)

10.14.2012

2 Years 2 Months

Once M turned 2, I had planned on dropping down to just quarterly updates. BUT, I feel like she's been changing and learning SO much that 3 months between updates was just too long. So...I've decided to continue to do updates every two months.

This weekend has been rainy and cloudy...but we ventured out anyways. M had a blast!! (And a meltdown when I had to drag her back inside once she was soaking wet.)

This will probably still be a semi-LONG-mish-mash-with typos-unorganized post. So, bare with me. At least I have this stuff on record for myself I guess! Haha!

We'll start with a few pictures from today!



Note to self - next time dress her in black pants for puddle jumping.
Poor girl looks like she peed in her pants! LOL!

Ok. Where we're seeing the most change and growth with our Madison is her speech and language development. Not a day goes by where she doesn't say a new word/words. She is also stringing words together and saying fully formed sentences. Josh and I both feel like we are basically having conversations with her. She still isn't super clear with all her words. But, she's trying! There's too many new words/phrases to list them all, but I will share some of our favorites.

"I don't know, Daddy!"
Ga-ma (for Grandma)
Love, too, Mommy. (She responds when we tell her we love her!)
Cuddle, Mommy, please.
Mommy, sit, me, please. (Mommy, sit by me, please.)
Pun-kees (pumpkins)
Piggy come too? (Her usual question if I tell her we have to get in the car to go somewhere.)
Mine help?! (Can I help? - She always wants to help with anything we're doing.)
Tandy (for candy)
Yesh, please!
Where dat Daddy (Inky, Benny, etc.) go?
Nummy in tummy.

She's learning emotions and talks about being happy and sad when we read books. She knows smiles are for happy and frowns and tears/crying are for sad.

She's also really into possession. We talk daily about what is Mommy's and what is Madison's and what is Daddy's, etc.



She's almost got her name down. Sometimes she'll get all three syllables, but usually she'll call herself, Madis.

She's working on her colors. She's right about 95% of the time when I ask her to find something that is a certain color...when I ask her what color something is...she's right probably about 80% of the time.

That's What She Said:
Going through the drive-through at McDonald's
Me: M...do you want a smoothie?
M: Oh yesh, please. Mommy have?
Me: I don't know...what should Mommy have.
M: Wawa (water).
Me: Ok.
M: Daddy have?
Me: I don't know...what should Daddy have.
M: (Thinking for a bit.) POP!
She knows her Daddy!

Her Favorite Activities:
'Helping' Daddy out in the shop
Painting and Coloring
Walking the dogs
Going to a park
Playing 'Ant Smasher' (game on my phone)
Reading books
Stickers
Playing 'Stroller Strides' with her dollies
Eating a sucker. Seriously...she loves suckers.
Hide and Seek (Her own version - I never know who is hiding and who is seeking...but she loves it!)
Anything with animals!



She's enrolled in Music Class again this fall. Grandma Tracy has been taking it with her. She's doing great. There has been some tears when I leave...but I know it's what's best for her. She's always happy and participating when I return to pick her up.

We are still doing Stroller Strides together, too.

She also started her first Dance Class. There will be a post on that later.

She's perfected her fake crying/whining face when she doesn't get her way. It's actually kinda funny. I need to get her picture one of these days. She is a normal 2 year old and has tantrums...if she's mad she usually runs in her room and hides from me. I usually just let her have her alone time. Overall, her tantrums aren't horrible (*knock on wood*).

She's still napping once a day in the afternoon...usually from 1ish-4ish. She's still sleeping great at night from 8:30 until 7ish the next day. She's still in her crib...and we're keeping her there as long as we can!



Potty Training Update:
She's going pretty regularly in her little potty every night during our bedtime routine...but we haven't pushed it much more than that. I do kinda feel like she's ready. But, I don't know if I am ready?! We hope to have her partially trained by the end of the year. For now, my plan is to start letting her have more nakey (pantless) time at our house just when we're home doing nothing. If she has to go...I'm confident she knows to find her potty for that. I plan on just using diapers for naps or long periods of time when we're away from home for a while. I don't think I'm gonna mess with pull-ups and introducing another new thing to her. It's either gonna be diaper or undies. Hopefully I'll have more to update in the coming months...part of me just wants to get through the holidays too...and then worry about at the beginning of next year...so, we'll see!!!

M's Diet:
Don't get me started. She is the pickiest eater. EVER. She refuses to try new foods. Bribing doesn't work. I'm so annoyed by her eating habits (and know I'm partially to blame probably) that I don't even want to blog about it! Haha! I haven't tried basically starving her to get her to try new things (and yes, I'm being dramatic by using the word 'starving' but I assume you know what I mean).

As of today, her diet consists of  fresh fruit and fruit cups, yogurt (regular and greek), skim milk, crescent rolls, mashed sweet potatoes, Gerber crunchies and fruit strips, bread sticks from Casey's, french fries from anywhere, fruit and veggie pouches (only way I can get veggies in her!), crackers, certain kinds of cereal, Nutri-grain bars, raisins, and junk food (of course...she loves chips, baked goods, muffins, and ice cream). She won't eat meat or bread. Blah.

Let's not end this post on a downer! My favorite picture from earlier. M and I playing 'Hide and Seek.' She's counting.




Oh Madison...our sweet baby girl, Mommy and Daddy love you more than words can express! We love you even when you're mad at us, pouting, and slamming your door, too! :)

10.12.2012

Foto Friday - Tuckpointer in Training

Today her tuckpointing apprenticeship began.

Putting the 'mud' (mortar) back in the joint.

"Tooling" it. (Smoothing it and making it look pretty.)


Brushing it.